Hello, My husband and I are married through Catholic Church, we wanted to baptize our son. Also, if Peter was the leader of the church and baptized in the name of Jesus, why is he wrong? Separate ceremonies you might say but all at basically at the same time. My 11month old son is to be baptised at this end of the month after months of issues with my in-laws. I don’t understand this…if you are Apostolic, then why would you want your daughter to be baptized in a Catholic Church? Can my childern still be baptized Catholic? Is this baptism valid? This Priest sadly passed away, and I moved out of the area and when I enquired, some years later, I was told that he had not kept any records on how far through the course I was although I’d attended for nearly a year. Dear Colleen, I imagine so that support is being spread through a range of people. Peace. (I wonder if this will get posted or deleted?). There was no danger or risk of death. You said the child goes to Catholic school, so I don’t know why there is issue with her being baptized Catholic….this is the faith she is taught in school. By now the child should be starting to be part of the Parish Community. 1) at least 16 years old 2) practicing Catholic with good standing in the church 3) not of the same gender as the second godparent 4) have received the sacraments of baptism, eucharist and confirmation. At an older age, they received their First Communion and were confirmed. He could very well be baptized within a few weeks. A question… Why do you want siblings to do the baptism rather than a priest? Very bible, scripture based, very good music, much more appealing to youth (& me, to be honest), than the Catholic Mass. the time comes he enter schooling.. We are unsure of the outcome of the legal proceedings so we thought pf doing this. He was baptized catholic as an infant and we would like to have our child baptized as well. Since my husband was baptized as a child can I have my children baptized Catholic? I hope your health has improved and that you do not feel alone and unkindly turned away from the very place that should be giving you comfort. İf parents belongs two diffrent religion and one side baptized their children without agreed, inform, and get permission, organize everthing hidden with the family; We are currently in the beginning stages of a high conflict custody battle. My child will be baptized at 13 months old and will be bigger and most-likely walking at that time. #CatholicBaptisim #YoungAdults #Catholic #CatholicGifts. xxooxx. I don’t have our sons baptism certificates are they registered on a registry as this was done is South Australia.. They told me I couldn’t do anything until I had Permanent Care of the children. Will this baptism conflict the one done in church (if it ever gets done)? the original birthcert and it seems a hindrance for us to. An be a godparent. The. See more ideas about catholic gifts, baptism gifts, catholic. We actually don’t have any Catholic friends or family that we would want as Godparents. I was also baptised in a baptist church years before being baptised in the L.D.S. The baptismal promise includes the promise that you will do your best to raise your child in the Catholic faith. I hope you have a realistic idea of how this may affect your family life from now on. Losing my faith was basically took over me. Very much promotes- find a good church that grows your personal relationship with Jesus. What happens? Please help. Yes, there is a process for this. Anyone can perform a baptism, however this is typically done only in extreme cases in which someone’s life is in danger. can we challenge the action taken by the tribunal court (Bishop house). Baptisms in the Catholic Church are joyous occasions steeped in rich traditions. (I was gradeschool at that time). I believe she is having my grandson baptized for all the wrong reasons, but she is determined to continue. I have taken the children to mass every Sunday and they are at the local Catholic primary school. If the previous ceremony was possibly valid, as in, the Trinity was invoked while water being poured, but there is some doubt about it; a “conditional” Baptism could be done by a priest. Peace and God’s blessings! Baptism is performed with water, either by immersion or sprinkling depending on religion. What can I do. Forbid the couple gets into an accident and the child losses both godparents, or if there were some family strife. Hello, I was baptized Methodist. The good thing here is that there is still time to correct past errors. My youngest- 13 yrs old- attends Catholic Church with us, however, goes to a Non Denominational Youth group, which she really enjoys. I am at a loss of what to do. Christ Calls All to Baptism. Thanking you in advance and apologies for the length of my ‘sermon’ , I’m so sorry that you have had this experience and I genuinely appreciate your frustration. Sorry I asked early if you can batize a baby if you are not married by church but, are married by court? I’m sorry to hear about your daughter’s godfather. The Church of England has a valid Baptismal Rite. My daughter is trying to plan her children’s baptism. Her other siblings are not. It is not necessary for God parents to be siblings or a relative. My wife has not converted to Catholicism yet, but we want our child baptized in the Catholic church shortly after birth. One of my dc didn't get baptuse4 as a baby. Can someone be Baptised in two different counties but in the same religion?? Only the first baptism, so long as the baptizer says “I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit,” is valid. Some priests tend to lose sight of the fact that they are servants to their parisheners and not the other way round. I don’t believe in any of this, but I am absolutely willing to baptize my boys to put my grandmother’s mind at ease. I was born in to the Catholic faith and so was baptised as a baby and confirmed as a child because it was my parents wishes. can i? He does not want the divorce, but there is no-fault in our state. Can I ? How can I go abouts getting my son baptise by them. I have updated it to better explain the concept of an “ordinary minister” and to also emphasize that deacons often perform baptisms. The one parent who is religious probably should be making their presence at the church you will be choosing to baptize your future children. If a Grandmother has baptised her grandchildren in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit with good intentions, (not an emergency) and now the children would like to be received into the Catholic church, what would take place in the Rite of Baptism/RCIA on Easter Vigil? The Catholic Church wants to walk the walk with you. For the Catholic, Baptism means participating in Jesus’ death and then resurrection; to go into the water and emerge a renewed child of God. Friends and family may be *Godparent(s)* for each other’s children. bad step mother and the WWII. I don’t see how. My sister is catholic and she is baptized by the Catholic Church but she had not done her confirmation. It is possible to have two faiths in a marriage and live happily. Yea you can baptise your child in the catholic church provided you bring him or her up in the catholic faith and assist him or her to grow in the faith. This includes taking the child to Mass, teaching them the Faith, praying with and for them, and making sure they receive the sacraments including reconciliation, first Communion, and confirmation. no one has the faculty to baptize any person validly except in cases of danger of death, it is only reserve to the ordained ministers. When we got married my husband was not Catholic. I was completely shattered. And I would be totally deverstated if my son cannot be baptised catholic. If you are having your infant child baptized the parish usually has a brief class to teach the parents more about the sacraments of baptism and the parent’s responsibility to the child as Christian parents. When Will My Child Receive the Sacraments of Christian Initiation? Typically both parents should be involved, however in certain circumstances exceptions may be made. My husband and i are married by civil court and we have a daughter that will be baptized by Catholic. My dilemma is godparents. When one receives Holy Communion and Confirmation, certificates are given to to the recipient. So if the mother is Catholic and the father is Jewish, for example, then each parent has the right to take the child to their respective religious services and to enroll them in rituals such as a baptism and bar mitzvah for example. Most parishes have the deacon as your advocate throughout the entire process. No you cannot be baptised a second time and no priest or deacon is going to do it not even at the Easter Vigil. At 17 she is not only old enough to make this decision but her mother a Catholic should have had her baptised as an infant, now I am only surmising here but as she didn’t do it I suspect it’s because she is not practicing her faith herself. I agreed and was very respectful at all times as I had been educated by nuns all my life and realised the value of these selfless workers and admired them greatly for their sacrifice to God. If you want to be Catholic, you should go to a Catholic Church, and talk to a priest. St. Paul had explicitly compared baptism to circumcision in his letter to the Colossians (2:11-12), so it makes sense that this comparison might lead to controversy about when to baptize infants. Can my baby be baptized in the Catholic Church either where I reside now registered in a new parish or in my hometown where I was baptized and also where my family back home attends church regularly? When the Church ‘does’ any sacrament, it uses the words of CHRIST, because while the human minister is the one doing the visible action, it is CHRIST who does the spiritual action of removing original sin and giving sanctifying and actual grace. It is immaterial if the child is aware of it or not. I often saw the nun at Sunday mass and would exchange pleasantries with her and she would tell me she would see what she could do, the oldest child was an alter boy by now, which I encouraged and took him to class, then he served at mass not only when he was rostered on but every Sunday. Baptize her and be valid? Obviously, I reside on a different part of the autism spectrum than she does, and I also have other disabilities, but I struggle with different degrees of things than my best friend and my partner do). 1. Your statement of being from a family with a strong Catholic background indicates that you may be. The Catholic Church will not baptise you again because your first baptism is recognised. Hi Terry. Please talk to your priest about the annulments. Can a practicing Catholic grandmother baptize her infant grandson through prayer without the parents knowledge because the parents are away from the church and are not currently practicing Catholics although they were raised Catholic? I have a nine year old foster daughter who desires baptism. Warm regards. I loved my confirmation name as MARJORIE but the BISHOP named me wrongly as MARGARET !!!!!!! Iam pregnant with my second child I want to baptis both of them at the same time. Do they still live by the oath they took at that original Catholic Baptism or is that oath now moot??? So I wonder which name GOD will called me in the BOOK OF LIFE ??????????? Please you need to be. (I am in the process of having my previous marraige nullified so we may proceed to marry in a Catholic church as a side note). Her father is not Catholic but was baptized Christian and the church has said it’s okay. Sacramental preparation classes are offered for parents of infants and children through six years old. I still have a couple of months to decide what is best for the children. My husband feels the catholic do not accept other Christianity’s such as having communion ( as he could not have this at our catholic wedding reception) whilst in an Anglican chili rich anybody who has had holy communion from whatever church can. I really love my niece and would love to be her godmother but if its not possible i would like to know before I get my hopes up. I want to know that is there any rule in India that anybody get the money after taking baptism from Hindu to catholic christian. I am Catholic. Hi, i just read your comment about your niece having two godmothers, i don’t have a godfather for my daughter but i have two godmothers, after two yrs in cathesism in order to be baptised my daughter wont be able to donit as de coordinator of the program wouldn’t let us, do you know what church your niece got baptized? My granddaughter was baptized by her Catholic father under crisis circumstances. (Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 1252). I’m sorry, I know this is a Catholic website, but I firmly believe that my grandson should make his own choice when he’s ready, not when she decides that he’s ready. Only Catholics are allowed to become godparents in Catholic baptisms. ( atleast on scripture to prove). i’m 20 but haven’t done my confirmation. I was previously married and have a 10 year old son of that marraige. Try the chancery of your diocese; do not leave the practice of religion especially for your grand ones who obviously have been through enough. After a while, i was informed I could not be a god mother since I don’t have the proof of my sacraments. He is giving us a hard time about getting a letter so we can have both our grandchildren baptised together in another church. John 3:5 says, “Jesus answered, ‘Amen, amen, I say to you, no one can enter the kingdom of God without being born of water and Spirit.’” Note that Jesus says “no one” can enter heaven in that passage. The essential requirement for Baptism is that at least one parent commits to raising the child in the Catholic faith by practicing and attending Mass. I think that is the best place to start. Thanks. in private? If there were no previous marriages for them or no other circumstances that would inhibit the blessing of their marriage, Convalidation is not a huge deal and doesn’t take too long to occur. If an infant dies before being baptized, where, in the Catholic faith, does the soul go? I am in my early twenties and I have been going to mass with my boyfriend on and off for a few months now and have been thinking about being baptized as a catholic. The most significant thing with this sacrament is the suffering you have been going through is united to the passion of Christ which is the very work of salvation. technically, he will be catholic since he will be baptized in the catholic church. I thought being Southern Baptist was strict. I didn’t have the confimation (I am baptised and had first communion) I’ve been through it. The problem comes in though that I go to a church affiliate with the fraternity of St. Peter. My husband and I both have been baptized in Jesus Name through our church (United Pentecostal Church). can i baptize my son twice because I don’t feel like the first God parents are old enough to be in the godparent. Thus, the decision whether or not to be baptized is his, and his alone, to make. My husband and I married in the Catholic church and want to baptize our daughter in the Catholic church. It may be possible, but you would need to connect with a church in the Philippines to discuss. The priest should be more than happy to assist you with bringing you into the church. Due to my worsening disabilities, I am unable to get to weekday mass recently, but I still consider myself to be following the Catholic path. Baptism isn’t something that should be treated lightly to quickly get done so that you can move on to others things. Typically you can contact the parish where he was baptized to get a copy of the certificate. You have to sign a for saying you will force your children to be Catholic? I waited patiently. Baptism brings new life into the Church and the parish. There is no need for “one of each” even though that is the custom. A Prophet is someone God uses to deliver message to you with confirmation. Can I baptize them with just their godmothers??? Please contact your parish to work with your situation. Your hometown parish should be able to help you with the process. Visit your local parish priest or deacon to discuss baptizing your children. Annulment is based on whether the intentions of both spouses, even after divorce, were truly honest and sincere about the vows. I am praying for you as I read this while looking up something for another, Hello !!!!!!!!! You may also request a meeting simply to learn more. I am now nearly 62 years. I didnt have any Catholic friends or Family either. And must the god parents be baptized also in order to be her god parents? Would I be able to use the certificate from my church or do i need to get baptized again at a Catholic church? A Catholic godparent can establish a telephone relationship with the child, calling on birthdays, anniversaries of baptism and other sacraments and so on. Typically Christian churches respect and recognize a baptism celebrated in another church. If there is some question about the validity; it needs to be cleared up and then you could get your married “regularized” in a Catholic Church, which would be a private ceremony in the Sacristy. I understand that to the Catholic Church this is not a valid baptism, but it was the most real and wonderfully emotional experience of my life. He will be able to provide proper guidance. When I saw father the first time he immediatley gave me forms to fill in, i have met with him weekly for a year and now am to become a full member of the Catholic church, my children were baptised within a couple of months of our first meeting. Just some background about us… I was raised a Catholic but my husband was raised Presbyterian. The following references and resources may be of assistance to parents and/or catechists. Children receive baptism primarily to remove original sin, but can serve as a great family tradition to initiate one’s child into the faith of the family. GOD BLESS, Hi, I knew this might be a mortal sin, but I did it anyway. If Peter, as Pope, had wanted everyone to use only one ‘dunking’ or one ‘pouring’ of water and only one name, he would have pronounced Jesus God without being one with the Father and Spirit as an unchangeable dogma of the Church. What can you do if you and your husband have no family and wish to baptize your baby? Unfortunately, my husband cannot make the trip home with us. If you want to feel good on Sunday morning why not just sleep in or catch a concert in the park. The whole point of being Catholic is about accepting everone. My husband is not Catholic and we were not married in a church. I have discussed my feeling with the priest and have signed up to commence a conversion with with begin in December and I will receive my confirmation in Easter. I am in the same situation as you. All protestant churches claiming to be Christian are actually practicing heresy, even though they may contain some elements of the Truth. I asked him to get the kids baptised and he was okay with it. Is this possible? Whom must I go to, to ask about all of this? Catholics belive in one baptism only for the forgiveness of sin. I have asked several people and I’ve gotten conflicting answers. Yes, definitely. Would I need my ex permission to do this? Hello i was wondering i was baptized when i was 9 years of age but i recently had a baby and my godparents were wondering if they can baptize my baby? There are two principal reasons for baptising infants: Responsibility of the Parents The parents are accepting the serious duty of sharing their faith with their child and asking for the help of godparents who have the responsibility of supporting the parents in guiding the child’s faith life, and their moral and spiritual growth. I was married to a catholic in the church but now divorced. Their role is to take over or assist in the faith development of the person being baptized. It was a slap heard ’round the Internet. I have been attending RCIA classes to become catholic at Easter. The Catechism of the Catholic Church states, “The family is the community in which, from childhood, one can learn moral values, begin to honor God, and make good use of freedom.” (2207). http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/_P41.HTM. Have classes until four more months .. can any praticing Catholic. My question is, if it is possible to have two baptisms, and if not, what would you suggest. When attending the baptism of a child, teen, or adult, those present for the baptism may vary slightly from that of the baptism of a baby. Hi, I am 25 years old and got a baby who’s 1 year old now. We are very happy to welcome you and your child to St. Anthony the Abbot Catholic Christian community. I was 13 when I started and was baptized and got First Holy Communion the same day at the end of 8th grade at age 14. Can you please advise if this is indeed Catholic Church Law and what I do from here in regards to my faith? As a (professionally educated) Lay Minster in the Catholic Church…I can tell you that you are misinformed. I have respected their religion and never once critize it. My daughters are also really keen to have their own daughters Baptised in their own Baptism Gowns, but if we wait much longer, we won’t be able to. Anyone can be baptised, but the preparation process before baptism for an adult is different than for a child. First of all, there should not have been two different sets of dates on any of the certificates. Also, those truly seeking baptism, but are unable to receive it due to extenuating circumstances (for example, if they die before they can be baptized) can receive the grace. Hello, I’m 20 years old and I never been baptized my patents aren’t together anymore and my best friend for 20 years ask me to be the god mother of her child , how can I get baptized and where can I go cause I need my cefricate quick. Some churches do not use the Trinitarian formula for baptism and thus their baptisms are not valid. We were then adopted separately and my family later converted and I was baptized again. The baby’s father and I are not married but are together. we are looking to get my daughter baptism. Even half of my college Newman Society was LGBT! You need at least two catholic Godparents (male and female), but you can have as many as you want with permission of your priest. That’s a good question for your priest. He has a girlfriend & they are planning on baptisizing her sister’s daughter in the Catholic church we both used to attend. Hopefully Mom and daughter can make up and even go see a priest and ask to come back into communion with the Catholic Church. 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